Etiquette & Good Manners for Modern Life — Manhasset, Long Island
Confidence • Grace • Practical Elegance
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Choose the experience that fits you, your family, or the occasion.
For Adults
Eternal Elegance is a carefully structured 20-class program designed for women who want to cultivate elegance not only in appearance, but in behavior, communication, relationships, and lifestyle.
For Adults
An elegant evening at the table: several courses, cutlery used with confidence, and conversation that flows. Come on your own, with a friend, or as a couple — and leave at ease in any formal dining room.
For Families
The Little Aristocrats™ Program is a thoughtfully designed educational experience for children, created to nurture confidence, emotional intelligence, social awareness, and elegant behavior from a young age.
For Adults
English Tea Ceremony held in the Grand Salon of the Baccarat Hotel, New York City. This refined experience blends British tradition, impeccable service, and culinary excellence — all within one of the most beautiful interiors in New York.
For Families
Playful, hands-on dining etiquette with a shared meal featuring pasta from a kosher restaurant, fresh bread rolls with butter, and crisp salad. Children learn real table manners through engaging games and practice, while parents discover simple ways to reinforce these skills at home.
For Adults
Discover the refined world of Japanese dining culture through respectful table behavior, proper chopstick skills, and step-by-step sushi etiquette. This graceful, educational tasting experience introduces you to centuries-old traditions while building cross-cultural confidence.
For Restaurants
Your guests notice everything, and they will almost never tell you. I come to your restaurant as an ordinary guest, then train your whole front-of-house team on everything I felt — from the first hello to the last goodbye.
For Virtual
To understand your partner more deeply, you must recognize his individuality — his ways of connecting, his emotional needs, and the qualities he values most. When you understand his archetype, everything changes.
For Virtual
Delve into the essence of authentic feminine expression as we explore five distinct archetypes that embody grace, elegance, and confidence. Purchase the recording of this transformative Zoom session.
Most people think etiquette is a set of rules waiting to catch them out. I think it's the opposite — it's what lets you stop worrying about yourself and start paying attention to everyone else.
So I teach it as practice, not theory. Students sit at a real table and use it: passing, serving, ordering, holding a conversation with someone they've just met. Very little is memorized. Almost everything is done.
A graduate of the Austrian Higher School of Etiquette, I teach children, teens, adults and couples in Manhasset, Long Island — in restaurants, in my studio, and on Zoom.
To make good manners feel natural rather than learned — so that being at ease puts everyone around you at ease too.
Small classes, real tables, and plenty of practice. Children, teens, adults and couples are all welcome.
Join the Etiquette CircleNot sure which program suits you or your family? Book a complimentary 15-minute call and I will help you find the one that fits.
90 Days. Small Intentions. A More Elegant You.
A complimentary 90-day experience. Each day brings one small act of elegance to practice, plus a moment of kindness for yourself — nothing complicated, nothing that takes extra time.
Kindness · Respect · Elegance
Don't just know more about elegance.
Make it part of who you are.
Another day closer to an elegant new you
From the Library of Elegance Academy
A beautifully written collection of stories designed to help children discover the value of kindness, respect, gratitude, and good manners in a warm and engaging way.
Through charming characters and meaningful life lessons, this book introduces etiquette not as rigid rules, but as a joyful way of treating ourselves and others with care and consideration.
Perfect for parents, grandparents, teachers, and families who value kindness and character development. A thoughtful gift and a timeless addition to every child's library.
Beautifully written and thoughtfully paced — a wonderful addition to any child's bookshelf.
He listened attentively to all four stories in one sitting.
We read it to our grandchild and he absolutely loved it.
Positive lessons that feel natural rather than preachy.
As a mother of three, I wish I had found this book years ago.
It kept my child's attention the whole time.
Beautifully written, with the most beautiful illustrations.
Such a sweet and meaningful book for children.
Exactly the wisdom worth passing on.
You can tell the love from the author.
Irina teaches etiquette the way it actually gets used — at the table, in a restaurant, in the middle of a real conversation. Her students range from seven-year-olds learning to hold a fork to couples preparing for a business dinner, and her classes are kept deliberately small so no one gets lost in the room.
A graduate of the Austrian Higher School of Etiquette, she is also the author of Tales of Kindness and Good Manners, a children's book about kindness and respect.
Her belief is simple: true elegance isn't about knowing more rules than anyone else. It's about making the people around you feel comfortable.
Four things that do not change, whichever workshop you pick.
Ten to fourteen seats, never more. Everyone gets real attention — whether they are seven or forty-seven.
You learn at a properly set table — in restaurants, at The Baccarat Hotel, in my private studio. Never from a slideshow.
Children, teens, adults and couples. A seven-year-old learning to hold a fork and a couple preparing for a business dinner both belong here.
Join me at the table on Long Island, or from anywhere in the world. Recordings available for selected sessions.
Some things are better taught at your own table. I come to your home — or a venue of your choice — for one family, a birthday, a circle of friends, or a team, and we build the evening around what you actually want your guests to walk away with.
Tell me what the occasion is — I’ll come back with a plan and a price, no obligation.
Your guests notice everything — and most of it, they’ll never tell you. They just quietly decide whether to come back. I visit your restaurant as an ordinary guest, then train your team on everything I felt from the first hello to the last goodbye.
Tell me about your restaurant and your team — I’ll come back with a plan and a price.
Feel-good music, inspired by real moments in life. Some people capture a moment with a photograph, some with a video. I capture mine in a song.
Write to me directly — I read and answer every message myself, usually the same day.